Sunday, July 31, 2011

Tomorrow I am 16 weeks!

How far along: tomorrow I Am 16 weeks! Whoa!!!

Baby is the size of: Avocado

Symptoms: I am so happy not to feel sick anymore. Ligament pain..especially if I sit too long and then get up. If I do not eat a little every one and a half hours, I actually feel sick and throw up. headaches often..but not seriously bad. Congestion and stuffy nose

Weight gain: well..I gained 10 pounds during the IVF process, but since getting pregnant..5 pounds. I have some guilt about this..trying to work through it. I fear gestational diabetes since I am overweight. SO far so good though. I walk at least 4 hours a week. Now that I have more energy..I will step it up. 

Maternity clothes -none that I have bought. But my mom bought me a few shirts and a dress that is so comfortable. It makes me really look pregnant though. 

Sleep: getting better..but still a lot of tossing and turning. I have been a stomach sleeper my whole life, and have never slept with a pillow. So now..that the books and doctors say to sleep on your side,...and best way to sleep is on the left side..it has been a struggle. I love falling asleep on my back and then when I start falling asleep, I turn on my stomach. So, for the first few months, I did not get any sleep..tossing and turning and freaking out when I would wake up on my back and of course the waking up to pee every hour.  Now I have a better rhythm. I got a memory foam pillow( so comfortable)and I put a thin pillow between my knees. It is not perfect, but much better. I also need a window open because I wake up from overheating and can hardly breathe unless the window is open. This is new for me because I normally like the house roasting when I sleep. 

Movement: Umm..not really. Can't really determine if it is gas or little movements from  my  little angel.

Cravings: pickles, olives, and cheese. Pesto has been good to. Anything cold and vinegary. 

What I miss: sleeping on my stomach. and...Sex again. The hubby is scared of hurting the baby. I swear...frustrating. He is frightened. He is always asking what I am eating..he won't let me eat any fish..and he wakes me up every time he sees I am on my back. The other day he saw ambulance on the freeway and started calling me to make sure I was okay. I did not answer and he started freaking out. I think I need to reassure him I am okay a little more often. He is so worried. He loves me..very sweet..but the worrying is not good for his stress level.

Strangest moment: my husband says the conception. MY mom was in the room. Sorry..cracking up right now. Who can say their mother was in the room at conception! lol A doctor was too though....thank you UCSF IVF department! I thought it was beautiful!!! Okay...and the strange morning sickness during the first trimester. "oh honey I do not feel well"..next 10 seconds running to the bathroom. Seriously it just happens without a lot of warning.

Gender: not sure yet..we will find out August 25th!!!

What I look forward to: everything. Baby showers, finding out the gender! I have the names already and I can not wait until my belly really pops so I do not look like I am just chubby. I really can not wait to feel the baby kick! or hiccup.

Milestones: second trimester! Very happy. I got to tell everyone. That felt great. 


I like these question answers..does anyone have anymore of these? They are kind of fun:)
I hope you all are having a fun and relaxing weekend.
Hugs,
Marilyn

7 comments:

  1. So happy things are going so well!! 16 weeks...uh-mazing!

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  2. congrats! hope the second trimester is very boring for you in the best possible ways!

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  3. wow....16 weeks....pretty cool!! Have you tried those pillow things to help you get comfy in bed?? My sister swore by hers.

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  4. It is so exciting that we are just a couple days apart! Too bad we don't live closer to eachother we could get together.
    The pregnancy pillow thing does help - I just got one and it is different but I think I did sleep better last night.
    I am also anxious to find out the gender - I think we finally have decided on a boy name - the girl name was easy for us. It will be so nice to call baby by a name instead of "it" or "baby."

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  5. I love the Boppy preggo pillow. Can't wait to hear boy/girl and I'm jealous that you have names already:] That's turning out to be harder that I thought! Glad everything is moving along!

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  6. 16 weeks - amazing! So happy for you! And I couldn't sleep without my prego pillow - get one stat!

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  7. Second trimester is such a wonderful (and comforting) accomplishment. I also thoroughly endorse the boppy preggo pillow (or a similar model). I use mine every night and it's the only way I can get comfortable (and it really helps as comfort becomes more and more fleeing ;)

    Looking forward to hearing about your ultrasound this month!

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